You have asked questions like that before, about exposing her A. IMO, any many here on this site share the same opinion, you won't be able to shame your W back into the M.
It also looks really weak to go around telling people about your personal life. You are a man. Men don't go around looking to shame their wives, they show her what a real man looks like. You won't others to tell her she's wrong. She knows what she is doing is wrong.
Stay the course, you can't rush the process. Thru the fire, not around, under, or OVR.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
