Perhaps you can do a few one-time things like getting a new hair style, buying some new clothing items, or going for a long walk alone to try to start detaching more.
I have been treating myself to some shopping therapy in a small scale, but yes GAL for moms with small children is almost impossible.
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Not that you can control anything that he's doing and comparing him to all the great husbands and dads will only make you feel worse, but for me it was a reminder and realization of just how bad my husband really is.
oh, that is one of the worst feelings really, seeing happy families and knowing our babies will never have that basic need fulfilled.
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I really hope for a quick positive outcome for you, whatever it may be. This current situation just sounds so so difficult and you're doing the best you can.
- Thanks Nicole, there are times that I feel a physical separation might actually be better than living in constant pressure, nonetheless, I have no choice but to somehow be strong enough to make it a happy home for the children. Like everyone else here some days I am okay and some days I just cant beat the feeling of gloom and doom.
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