Thank you Steve, I feel I have been guilty of too much in the past to not answer most of her calls and validate when I can.
I get a feeling there will be more now I've finally learnt to take the pressure off her, pressure I didn't realise I was creating.
It is amazing how mot of the time when you back off, they come forward. Could be for lots of reasons, not all good (like trying to keep you as Plan B), but it usually works that way.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018