Thank you Steve, I feel I have been guilty of too much in the past to not answer most of her calls and validate when I can.

I get a feeling there will be more now I've finally learnt to take the pressure off her, pressure I didn't realise I was creating.

LBH 47 WW 47, M 15 T 18
D 11 S 14
BD, I moved out (duped) Jan 18
3 yr EA with ex-H discovered: Feb 18
I moved back in: Aug 18 (against her wishes)
...No R No M/C, continued limbo, dropping the rope!