[Vanilla]

Look I really do get it. It takes a great deal to get out of an abusive R, it does. And no matter what the choice is yours.

Be very careful to be safe.

It is a certainty that once an abuser knows you are done they will get way out of control. Definitely. For sure. Don't doubt it.

And you have been in this a long time so it's harder.

I am glad you are reading through the thread and it's very intense so take it slowly. It is very practical and designed to explain the dynamics of abuse interactions.

Once you know then you will never unknow.

I am around if you need to post, my thread is in surviving. I have been where you are and at long last am free.

I can point to some extra resources if you need them.

Stay safe.

V