This is horrible I am lonely and missing them and the 4 of us being together.
I turned down another meal there yesterday and turned down calling in after work today.

She has responded by calling more and talking about her work stuff more, not just kids stuff.

I feel it is good my listening to her stuff and being encouraging but detached with love as it shows I am not just going NC, which I have done before or feeling angry with her. I think it balances her feeling me pull back whilst still being her lighthouse.

LBH 47 WW 47, M 15 T 18
D 11 S 14
BD, I moved out (duped) Jan 18
3 yr EA with ex-H discovered: Feb 18
I moved back in: Aug 18 (against her wishes)
...No R No M/C, continued limbo, dropping the rope!