OVR I read all your posts. Seems like a similar situation as mine. Wishing you luck. Detaching and DB / non pursuit is tough. I made a mistake of listening to W she actually told me to date while she was in PA. So I had a relationship or two. Now trying to DB but the struggle is real. Keep posting. Anything actually working???

Not sure if you read all Sandis stuff but: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2545554#Post2545554

And my story is here:

H: 33 W:32
M: 5 T: 8
D: 4
BD: 6/2017
MO: 6/2017
House sold: 6/28/18
W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18
Paying $ support since 7/18.
Physical Reconnect- 10/18
W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18