Can I really do this #2

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I am perplexed about a situation.

W wants a D and to be gone.

I have been looking for a good opportunity for almost 2.5 years now. Funny how things go, but this opportunity (with ownership stake) just came up a month ago. Discussions are moving along, but I can't do anything with this MR issue as I wouldn't want to give her any rights, nor would I put my partner at risk getting involved in this.

This would require a relocation. W has always said she wanted to move back to where the relocation would be anyway, so I don't think that is an issue. My problem is, that if I want to get my careers back on track, I may to push the D quicker to get it settled in the window for this opportunity. Do I do this and hope that along the way she realizes and changes her mind? Do I just grab the reins, push forward and make the D happen? Or do I just sit, practice DB and wait?

Financially, this could open the door back to where my kids and myself would be in a way better place.

Weird how life is.