Thanks V. So to be clear and concise. If and when she contacts me to hang out the conversation should go something like this then?
WAW: Hey want to hang out tonight?
Me:Sure. How about we go to dinner and then to see Band X at Sam's Bar? I'll pick you up at 8. Sound good?
Then if she declines what do I do? If she says she wants to hang out at her house again? If she says yes then mission accomplished.
Hey Steve, Well inwoudln say I feel bad after leaving her because I am happy to have the chance for her to see me in person and how I've changed. I dress better, look better and wear cologne now. I mention the cologne because WAW mentioned I smelled nice the other night and I forgot to mention that. She also commented on how I'm not pale as I was. I got a tan from working outside last week. Anyway, I don't feel bad after leaving her...just a little disappointed. But once I get back home I get back into the swing of things reminding myself that WAW isn't done with me and that there will be a next time...meaning I fully expect her to initiate contact yet again very soon. So that also prevents me from feeling bad. It's nice to know there will be a next time unlike when she was in Florida. But yeah, your GF you speak of sounds quite similar to my WAW. I just want to know if I should just start dating other people or keep devoting my romantic energies on WAW. The impatient part of me wants to say to hell with WAW and just forget about it...but the other part of me reminds me that WAW is essentially the one making contact every time and that must be for a reason. And that part of me finds it hard to believe it's just to be pals. But as you say, she sends a different name message too. She's a pain in the you know what my friend!
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14