Withdrawal, The Worst Stage Yet?

[Rita]

HaWho, sometimes I wonder if we are different versions of the same person since our situations were so similar -- and apparently we had the EXACT SAME THOUGHT PROCESS about Munson. A friend told me about that blog post and I was heartbroken about her H redivorcing her but I was also not surprised at all. I had had the EXACT SAME headscratching when I read the review of her book and watched a couple of interviews. I also was thinking she was out of her mind to put that kind of pressure on her H of having such a fast turn-around and then telling the entire world about it and making a career out of it. I can't even ask my H to take out the garbage and she wanted him to be okay with the NY Times knowing he was back?! I think she shoulda asked Job and Cadet first! : ) I found it pretty depressing how her M played out but I really did like that post about how to keep her house and keep living life. I also liked the way she wrote about the agony of having to have her kids stay with her XH overnights. That is still a huge fear of mine though my H shows no signs of leaving at the moment. I have never spent a night apart from my kids (except a couple of sleepovers and summer camp for a week) and I dread that aspect of D more than any other.