Gerda - I saw your post on DNJ's thread. It piqued my interest because I read her book in the early days of researching MLC. Her h showed the classic signs of MLC, she seemed to implement DB practices (but without maybe knowing of this strategy). And in a matter of months, 3 or 4, her h returns and they reconcile.

It left me scratching my head. At the time I wanted to believe this nightmare could end so fast. But logically I knew anyone who went as far off the deep end as her h did, could not possibly snap back in 3 months.

Now years later, it appears her h bombed her again and they are divorcing. So I suppose it all was a touch-n-go for him.

Anyway, thanks for posting because I always wondered about her situation.

Hope all is well.

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Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced