You are missing something. Detachment isn't being absent. I too had isolated myself and was withdrawn prior to bomb day. Detachment is being present, but not reacting to her actions and words. Read the detachment thread. So many have the wrong idea of detachment. Detachment isn't ignoring, or being gone.

So yes, you are missing what true, loving detachment is.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018