Artista and I are saying the similiar things in different ways.

Going to her place getting drunk was not a great idea. Saying let's go watch a band, not drink and I will drop you off early is a good idea. Nor is going away on holiday or for a long weekend.

I am not saying invite W out at all. If and when the opportunity arises don't go round get drunk and sleep on her couch. Go bowling, watch a film, see a band, don't drink and finish early. Be the leader in it.

OK, is that clearer?

V


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW