I don't know for sure but I think she may be fishing, searching for a response from you. For you to show your interest?
I'm not a mind reader but she reached out to you...maybe she's wanting you to step up. Hoping you will take the lead from now.
I know it's difficult when we've been left behind, we want them to take control but a conversation needs to be had at some point. And I think it may have to come from you. I mean she's shown her interest in many ways...least of all asking you to sleep in her bed!
Women are difficult things sometimes, they don't always come out with whats on their minds...they hedge around hoping you'll pick it up.
Good luck!
Me 50 H 48 S 23 S 21 D 19 Together 31 years Married 25 years Separated April 2009 Reconciled 2010 Separated September 2017