Thanks Arista, yeah I thought it strange that she would say "I don't know who I could go with" and thought she was dropping a hint. One of her issues with our marriage was that I didn't want to travel enough so I thought maybe that was a test. No matter, I think the next time she contacts me to hang out I'm going to have other plans. I'm shutting this show down for awhile with her and going a bit dark again. I mean I won't be a jerk and go total no contact, and I will reply to her texts and all...but there will be no more hanging out for awhile. Don't you think that's my best plan of action now? It's summer and I want to have some fun. She can hang out with someone else instead for awhile. Then she'll realize there's no one like me and she will probably seek me out even more. For now I'm going to back off, do my own thing, and make getting me over there much harder for her from now on. If I'm just a friend to her, then that drops her to the bottom of the totem pole as far as my priorities go now. She has a lot of work to do. I'm losing interest and patience with her very quickly now anyway so I'm going to stay away for awhile and date other people, hang with my friends, and enjoy my summer. If she wants me then she needs to work. Otherwise she can go back to her parade of loser men who will never compare to my awesomeness anyway. Good luck with that parade WAW, it's worked out well for you so far hasn't it LOL?!
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14