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Thanks Gordie and Bttrfly for the posts.

Brubeck, yours is a tough one because your live-in monsters quite a bit. I hope she has settled a bit?

Job, you will get a kick out of this as you always loved his communicating via notes.

Last week a handwritten letter was delivered to me via S12. It was left on the counter and addressed in my street name not in my name. Ahh, very mature; another one of his great notes coming my way.

Inside are 2 numbered bullet points. 1 is that my AAA card has been renewed and ex leaves me the card. (Not sure how this happened as I separated myself off the AAA policy months ago. And I categorically told AAA I don't want to combine policies. A phone call is due to them to unravel what happened.

This one is for Mleigh. When my Costco card recently expired I renewed it and put my coworker who loaned me the car on as co-member. I wanted to thank her for the car loan, she does not make a lot of money and yet is one of the most generous people I have ever met.

So bullet point 2 came in the form of a demand, a put down and a threat all in 1. Ex wrote "put me back on the Costco card. X coworker is not on the payroll." (Guess he is implying I AM on his payroll.) Then he threatened "you don't really want me to remove you from all my cards, do you?" (Not sure he is aware that we are very close to separating all that and yes, I do want that! Hence my lawyer.)

We still have joint access to our 2 bank accounts as we settle things financially so looks like he threatening to remover me. Good luck on that as everything we do right now is under a miscrocope.

I waited a day or two thinking how to answer. I showed it to a few girlfriends and we all had a good laugh over it. It was particularly funny as I just discovered x did have a secret bank account. He emptied it one week before telling me he wanted a D. And now here he is insisting I put him on my Costco card. The level of entitlement is stratospheric.

And, it's just bizarre that he files for D, renews my AAA, wants to be on my Costco card and wants to be able to control me through threats of cancellation. Why on earth would he care to be on my Costco card?!?

A month or so ago he also said we should just put all our money in escrow together. Not sure he understands the basics of divorce. I gave him radio silence back on that one.

In the end, I am not going to bother answering. There is just no point. He's not working with a full deck. I think he's still just working with the 2 jokers.