I think she is trying to get a reaction out of you. She may even be trying to make you feel guilty for the situation. As the saying goes- Stay calm - be the steady on . let your light from the light house shine bright!! Stay well!!
Yes, but what reaction? And why? I guess this is all "part of the game".
Is she trying to get me to pursue, or feel bad for her?
Any reaction. She's giving you a temp check to see where you stand. She wants to know if she's still got you wrapped around her finger. If she's noticed you distancing lately, she's trying to get you to pursue again...
As far as saying you're sorry when she says she's sad, I wouldn't do it. She stabbed you in the heart and is telling you it hurts her. Really? My response would be, "Oh yeah?" or "I bet that $ucks". But I would not apologize for her feelings about something that she caused. It makes you look weak. It would be one thing if you were still in a healthy MR, but she fired you from that job. You're not her gay boyfriend...
And Wolf may be right, because my W did the same thing. Be ready for her to ask you for something. She might be buttering you up...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
