I got on the defensive and stated that my S is very smart and fully aware of what happened. Both SIL then make the assumption that since my W walked there must have been a problem with me. One SIL even said my W would talk to her about being unhappy for some time. Funny thing is -why would W not talk to me. I responded by stating there was no beating no cheating no abuse. We had some R problems that with the proper help and attitude would be repairable but W just quit. My beliefs do not include divorce. we attended mass every Sunday.
Not sure if this will fall on deaf ears, but here goes. WLF, please understand, I, we are here as your advocate in this sitch.
You are not to discuss your sitch with family. An alpha male would not tolerate these SILs disrespect. BTW, something IS wrong with you. Something is wrong with W too. These are not topics for discussion at the nieces BDay party. Period
If you have a trusted friend than take it to them. DO NOT DISCUSS WITH THE FAMILY. Not if you have any desire to possibly recon.
Do you want to be right or try to give this MR a chance? Because people are going to choose sides regardless of what you tell them. They are.
Praying for you.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
