Just a quick update, h already emailed me back, short version is:
As always nice to hear from you, thanks for writing.
Talked about the boys a bit
Was hoping i would get in contact while I was staying with s21, he thought he would leave it to me to do so and that he had asked s21 to let me know it was an option
He is not coming down this weekend now, the trip has been postponed.Said yes he would feel awkward if I was around and feels it would also be awkward for S24 so thats why he suggested s24 go meet him where he is staying.
Asked how I am finding the new location, apart from being cold and is it somewhere I can see myself settling.
Gave update on our dogs, getting old girls now and slowing down.
Said he is enjoying his new job, pays well. Went to Thailand a few months ago to get his teeth fixed (has been wanting to do that for years) got a holiday in with it for the same price as doing in NZ and his parents flew out to meet him there as it is was half the travel time for them and they are getting too old to travel long haul.
Signed off, stay warm best you can, Love Me x
I have written back - short version:
Thanks for writing back
replied to comment about s21
said s21 did not pass on the message and that is a shame as it would have been nice to have met up with him. I was hoping he would have contacted me so took his silence as his message. Seems we are both as bad as each other and I really dont want it to be like this if that helps him at all.
Acknowledged what he said about the dogs, job and his trip.
Replied to his question about settling where I am.
Short end and signed off.
So no further forward, he is not giving anything away and there is no meet up, so not sure how to proceed. Is it up to me to keep checking in or do i leave him to it now? He seems to keep putting the ball in my court without telling me its there!