Oh Jeez, sorry guys but a couple other things I forgot to post. She mentioned at one point that she had gone to our old apartment parking lot where we lived for 17 years and just hung out there for a few minutes at some point. It's unclear whether this was before or after we reconnected however. This stuck out to me because even though I didn't tell her...I had done the same thing! Also worth mentioning is that she stated there was an event coming up that her and I shared in common and that even if we are with other people she still wants to go with only me. Sorry to have to make several posts here but I spent an especially long time with WAW this time and, of course, we got really drunk as I mentioned so I forgot to include these items in my first post about our visit.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14