Jim I have been thinking the same thing
One cat is hers one is ours
For clarification going dark is actually great for me to get myself together but felt cheeseless in relation to W
But I need to stop viewing dark as a means to manipulate my wife


M 40 W 34
Together 7 Married 2
No Kids
BD 1/18 need space
Moved out 2/18
ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18
W filed for D 6/18
D final 10/18