I just dont understand how they want no part of your life anymore, but as soon as something goes wrong or they need something, they dont go to the OM, they have no issue coming back and asking for help? Does going to the OM for things like this ruin the fanasy or something?
This happens to me all the time. W just asked me for $100 to pay her gas bill. I wanted to tell her to go ask OM, but instead I decided not to respond. She walked out on me and our kids, and I've been taking care of them 100% by myself with no help from her. If anything, she needs to be giving me money...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
