B8, we always think our circumstances make DBing more difficult. Truth is that it is hard no matter what the circumstances are surrounding our particular sitch.
Living under the sane roof affords us both opportunities and trials. Opportunities to detach, 180, GAL and be the best that we can be with fast results, since our WAS is there and can see all that happening.
It has lots of trials too though watching our WAS go through the stages and moods and feelings. Those challenge our detachment and can set us back at times.
However self differentiation is mandatory in a MR in order for it to be healthy and successful. So keep working at it. and remember you have no control over her but total control over you.
You got this! Read the detachment thread again. Study sandi's rules. And do better from this point forward.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
