Sorry I missed your message , I have been lurking here but not paying attention to my own stitch.
Also wasn’t sure if all the bugs were fixed when posting.
I am doing good. Work and the girls.
No news from XW. Which is good and better yet no news from my friend who is neighbour to XW and OM2. I don’t need info. No contact from her entire family.
With my GF it had a small bump in the road. Pressuring moving in together. I’m just not there and neither are the girls. GF sees this is a long term deal and no sudden changes just yet in where we live.
Celebrated my 49th Birthday , I feel 30 which is good.
I do however follow along and read the newbies. I also went back to read my first posts as well.
It’s crazy our mindset when coming here for then first time. Looking for the magic spell to snap our MLCr out of all this. Of course we learn there is none. And we are not the exception, our spouse will not be that one in 2 million person to break free of MLC and never return
It’s time and self care. Prayer for our MLCr and that’s it.
I do still hope one day she will connect with the girls. It’s going on 3 years BD and soon 3 years the girls haven’t seen their mom.
Hard to imagine but it real.
I hope you are all well. I do miss you all and hope you all find the strength to save yourselves.
