Afraid of the dark PART 3

[Ste7e]

Sandi

You said:
"First of all, you have things turned around backward. She is the one who betrayed the trust in the MR. Right? So then why do you feel you have to do something to prove she can trust you? I'll tell you why. B/c this is how waywards manipulate. They will twist & turn the truth and play on the feelings of the LBH. Get your head on straight. She deceived you. She is in an affair. She broke the trust, not you. She is trying to manipulate you into signing the D papers for her."

I have a couple questions about this? V read my sitch and said she thought I was dealing with a WAW but you are saying WW can you tell me why you think that? Does the difference matter in how I deal with W? Also why do you think she is having an A? She said she isn't and I am not snooping so I only have her word?

This is murky waters for me as I had accused my W in the past because I was really paranoid by my previous R where my GF had cheated on me a bunch. This is stuff I am working on with my IC But my paranoia was unfounded with my W at the time and fully in my head. Maybe all the trust stuff from her now is projection?


And Yes I do feel quite manipulated by all this. I am very weak right now and she is using that against me.