Also after rereading abunch of DR I realized that I was confusing doing 180's with GAL. So most of my 180's were actually GAL oriented. Some of the big 180's I actually need to do are 1.) Be emotionally sober and don't allow my anxiety to derail me
2.) Get a job in the field I want to be in so as to find some fulfillment in my life beyond my W
3.) Stop trying to manipulate my W to be in the R live and let live
4.) Curb my jealousy and untrusting behaviors to everyone
5.) Act as if I am moving on with my life and eventually that will become a reality
M 40 W 34 Together 7 Married 2 No Kids BD 1/18 need space Moved out 2/18 ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18 W filed for D 6/18 D final 10/18