Also after rereading abunch of DR I realized that I was confusing doing 180's with GAL. So most of my 180's were actually GAL oriented. Some of the big 180's I actually need to do are
1.) Be emotionally sober and don't allow my anxiety to derail me

2.) Get a job in the field I want to be in so as to find some fulfillment in my life beyond my W

3.) Stop trying to manipulate my W to be in the R live and let live

4.) Curb my jealousy and untrusting behaviors to everyone

5.) Act as if I am moving on with my life and eventually that will become a reality


M 40 W 34
Together 7 Married 2
No Kids
BD 1/18 need space
Moved out 2/18
ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18
W filed for D 6/18
D final 10/18