First thing this morning H starts off saying he hardly slept and has been suffering from insomnia and been depressed for a year. I am dragging the D process and making him suffer. This is after 2.5 months of BD, said get that counseling done and your head sorted. I was quiet and have been out of his way taking kids out as much as I can. No idea what he expects from me and why he continues staying at home if I am so insufferable