Originally Posted By: Vanilla
Originally Posted By: mtb1981
Can you please help me? I wouldnt ask if I had anyone else to ask. Im sorry...

This is what she just sent now. Can she be serious? Not my job anymore since she left me. How do I respond to this?...


Sorry I missed this. But it will happen again ok?

This is why.....

You wrote:
I just got off the phone with the L and told him to hold off for now. I have 2 main reasons for this...

So my thinking is your actions have encouraged this.

V


I had a moment of weakness earlier this week. L is on vacation until the 28th and won't be able to review the paperwork until he gets back. Me telling him to hold off essentially had no effect. The paperwork has all been drafted. It's just waiting for him to get back to go over it. I'm going forward with it all. W has no info on any of this. She still doesn't know that I filed...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...