Anyone who has successfully R have advice on how to build attraction and respect back with WW? Is there another post on this topic?

What do I say when she asks did you go out last night? Just not answer? Tell her why is she asking? This happened today and I said I was home reading. W is empathetic we used to joke about her being telepathic... seemed to know I was out and she couldn't sleep last night. She gets jealous.


We used to have this intense sexual attraction and then "her switch flipped" I had some mental health issues I had to work through with seasonal depression. I blamed external factors when I needed to look inwards and work on myself In the past I made a lot of mistakes initially, letters, gifts, talking about changes etc. I forgive myself accept my mistakes in M and after. 180s, getting back in great shape, looking good, starting a business plan to build a potential new career.

Now full on DB doing well but only been a few days. Both have dated but now we are not. Getting separate living situation... she has no income so I'm helping her get out of a toxic living situation at her parents mom has mental health issues untreated. Her rental will be in both our names, so I'm hoping to end up spending time with her there over the next year. I am buying a condo that could be turned into a rental - moving forward with my life either way.

Thank you!


H: 33 W:32
M: 5 T: 8
D: 4
BD: 6/2017
MO: 6/2017
House sold: 6/28/18
W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18
Paying $ support since 7/18.
Physical Reconnect- 10/18
W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18