hello darlin ... thanks for the update!

i dunno dear coly - it seems to me that he was excited to hang out till he saw that it was about him getting his stuff. and STILL he hung around.

I remember reading a letter by a WAH who had reconciled with his wife. He describes her packing up his stuff and him having to take it away as one of the milestones in his realization that this wasn't what he wanted.

I'm not saying hold on ... I'm saying don't close the door completely maybe? Keep moving forward in your life and if you want, leave a small window of opportunity open for H to climb through if he can?


Either way, keep posting! Love to hear from you xoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver