I never responded, so I just got a text saying, Thanks for ignoring me and leaving the house... Followed by I really wish you could stop being this way. Just when I feel like were getting to a good place you act like this. No this is not me being pissy, just hurt and letting you know how I feel.
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Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
You are helping her by not enabling her. One of the highest form of love is not intervening when a love one is on the way down. She has to crash. And from my view she is headed down fast. Stay steady.
I'm very impressed by your strength.
You are an amazing father and husband.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
I really wish you could stop being this way. Just when I feel like were getting to a good place you act like this. No this is not me being pissy, just hurt and letting you know how I feel.
I will be by the house to get my stuff regardless of whether you are there or not
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
Sarcasm into guilt trip topped with angry threat...
Still have not responded and do not know if I should. She got in once and stole an extra key last time I changed the locks. I do not think she realizes I changed then again...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
She does have all her stuff. She wants a table and chairs from the basement that she cannot even fit into the van and some dvds. I can almost guarantee you she is just at looking for stuff she can pawn or sell to friends for a quick buck. And you are right. She is just mad I would not give her any money...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
"Just when I feel like were getting to a good place". Really! Wow! her fantasy is real. She's going all in with that comment. Her options are low, and her desperation is shining through like a flashlight through a sheet.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
Exactly, joejoe... She's trying to bait me with that comment. She was over here the other day beinag all nice and I was cordial. Now she's dangling the possibility of a chance at R over my head and trying to convince me that I am ruining it by not giving her what she wants. I'm not gonna fall for it.
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
