I think human nature is complex
She may be confused as long term R can become less exciting than they once were
Maybe she is in quarter life crises
she is young for MLC-- most posters wives here seem to be around 37 plus and the men usually 40 or so

Either way, you will know more as time goes on
It is a good idea to moniter the spending as they do tend to spend way more than they have
many will find their way in debt during the crises
The staying out late is a common trait along with no texting
wanting to move out ect

Try to focus on you
find some new hobbies, seek counseling and support
read, exercise, rest and sleep
make some plans with a friend-get dressed up and go out-a few times
try to validate her and give her space-

Sorry you find yourself here
hang in


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow