good advise for validating! I answered that and she replied that: -its exactly how I feel-.
Yep, I do not expect that to be anything else than ensuring Im still available when it suits her agenda. Sure it [censored] but I have overcome my biggest challenge to express my emotions to her. Even she says she is interested, deep down she is only interested in herself.
She has rented an apartment with another WW and and invited me and kids to housewarming party with another WWs LBS. Of course that was only to us and friends would come later. Anyway, I did not feel ok going to her partyflat and to be honest - not even interested. So I said thank you but no thank you. Clearly she was disappointed about it, but why should I go just to make her happy...
Lol, go to her housewarming party? A party for and by women who can't be the wife they promised to be? And you're supposed to show up as a....friend???
I would have wanted to tell her to "get lost" or something like that.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
