My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance

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Well I got about 5 calls this morning and some text messages about normal stuff. WW texts "why aren't you answering". Should I respond to this or just let the actions speak?

Then twice in text WW asks if I'm at the lake... followed by "??" when I don't reply quick enough. 3 hours later WW calls to ask if I'll be at the lake, I respond "why, what's going on?". WW says "I'm just wondering", I respond "I'm just wondering, too".

I go to end the convo by saying "alright then" before I'm cut off and questioned about what I'm doing. I go to end the convo again and WW she asks if I'll be at the house today. I say "not sure", then end the convo with "I'll talk to you later" and hang up (as she was continuing to talk).

I can't keep having one way communication. I don't want to be anything and everything for WW when she can't do the same. I'm trying to remember to sound positive, I could have had a better tone. I guess I need to detach futher still.