She just texted back saying she wanted to talk about the kids and grabbing more stuff. She also wants to borrow $100. Siad her gas bill is due and needs money for gas to get to her mom's this weekend to get new tires on the van. She says she didn't want to ask me, but doesn't know what else to do...

There's no way I'm giving her any money. And I really don't want to have the same worn out conversation about the kids and her taking more things from the house. Any advice?...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...