I should have been more clear. It was anytime I disagreed with her on anything, she considered it emotional abuse. If she did not get what she wanted, and I stuck up for myself and stood my ground, she considered it emotional abuse. Funny thing is, during these arguments, she was the one that would do the cussing and name calling, not me. Yet, in her mind, I was the one being emotionally abusive. I think the term gets thrown around very loosely by a lot of people because it is not as easily identified as other types of abuse like physical or sexual...
As I said, if your actions (emotional) or words (verbal) hurt their feelings than in their minds it must be abuse. And a lot of counselors are idiots for throwing those terms around so lightly. A counselor worth their salt would be very careful using the word abuse.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
