Thanks Maika, I will make sure to be calm and face him.
Originally Posted By: Maika
if he gets abusive, then call the cops.

He is not the kind of person he has become and even now it is just anger and verbal, I know probably all LBSs say it but even if the R does not work out I still want to make sure things are amicable because at the end of the day my children need a stable father. Every day I am hoping things improve and he gets out of the fog but I have come to realize I cannot control it.
I will make sure there is no harm to me or the children and I do believe strongly that it would never get there.
Thanks for all the guidance though Maika, it always helps me.