What wxactly have you done that would be considered emotional abuse? The reason I ask is because my W throws the term around rather loosely. Anytime I disagreed with her, I was being emotionally abusive...
That's the question I've been agonizing over this whole time since our marriage counselor (who is now W's individual therapist) said my behavior was emotional abuse. I don't have time to list everything now but that's something I need to make time to do soon. Usually when I think about the list I do think of justifications/rationalizations for my behavior, which just traps me in a loop of questioning whether it was really abuse or not. Like you say, to disagree that it was abuse amounts to abuse.
Me:30 W:31 S:4 M:7 T:12 PA: 5/6/18 - ? W moved out 7/18
