Thanks Eric, your input was very helpful. I still have a lot of things to work on.
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I think it may help you to try to look at him primarily as the father of your kids.
I know what you are saying is true, it is just so hard to detach to that level yet, I am aware every minute that it is what I need to do, but mentally I am not there yet.
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Saying you were sorry how he felt was spot on. You may want to refrain from pointing out that you did not feel the same way... It is a form of pursuing ("We had good moments too...").
Oh when put that way it sounds so pursuing and I have been attempting to completely back off giving him the space he needs. Thanks for pointing it out. I will work on the pursuit/distance aspect more.
