DBing is hard. No question. And you did the right thing by not showing your emotions until she was gone.
The answer your question is you keep it up as long as you want to. It is always in your power to stop at anytime. No one can force you to DB, and it won't work unless you want to keep doing it. One of sandi's rules is to never give up. And the proof is in the pudding that if you DB long enough, unless your MR was a sham to begin with, eventually your WAS will come around. But most people through DBing end up not caring to save their MR any longer and initiate the D themselves.
Whether you keep trying or not is completely in your power to control.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
