ok so I called W again to tell her I was going out of town for a couple days to clear my head. Very different conversation today I said that I would be willing to sign whatever she needed. But that what I wanted was to honor what we had and be able to spend actual time together and do fun things which like we used to do and not talk about the D stuff or my job stuff when we do it. She said that is what she wants to do to but needs the D so that we can do that.
WTF this is all wrong dude. Why would you call her again to tell her your going out of town. None of her fuching business.
You want to be able to spend time with her and do fun things??? She just told you she wants a d. Do you know how pathetic that makes you look?
Yeah she said she wants to but needs a D first. Once your D'd she will probably get a restraining order because right now you are probably acting like a creepy stalker. That is why she feels trapped in the marriage.
If you are not in IC you need to get in right away.
I know this is harsh but you are really starting to go off the deep end and make things a lot worse.
