Thank you for those wise words, I'll be seeing her at the family home in the next hour or so, I'll remember this and ensure I make no pronouncements. Detached. calm and every present :-)
LBH 47 WW 47, M 15 T 18 D 11 S 14 BD, I moved out (duped) Jan 18 3 yr EA with ex-H discovered: Feb 18 I moved back in: Aug 18 (against her wishes) ...No R No M/C, continued limbo, dropping the rope!
