I still say that a straightforward discussion with her about where this is heading and what she wants out of it should happen sooner rather than later. No sense is wasting time if she is just wanting to be friends. Not sure how you feel, but if I D my W, and she started wanting to be friends to this point I think I would tell her that I have plenty of friends, that I'd be interested in reconnecting if she is, but nothing less.
Of course, I am a little older than you so maybe my outlook on time is different than yours.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018