The going out thing prohably will not turn her around
but may make her think
she still has her journey and MLC is a long one

But going out will help you meet some new friends and create a new life on your own (just in case)

You will also have some fun and some distractions from the craziness

you will see that you can and will be ok no matter what

Many people out there have experienced this in their M and there is a common bond for those that have walked similar roads-

married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow