Last week she took $1200 out of savings without mentioning.
RR17,
You need to take care of your financial stuff ASAP because money will continue disappearing.
One day, back when I was still married, I noticed $10k missing. I asked my wife about it and her casual response was that she needed to put some money in her account. No big deal. That evening, I noticed another $3K was transferred. I asked about that, and she had yet another excuse; it was casual, no big deal. After that second transfer, I decided to open an account and do a transfer of my own. She hit the roof.
Your wife will drain you dry and leave you with little or nothing. Get ahead of your financial stuff right now. Life is a lot easier if you've got some cash on hand; you'll need it when the lawyers get involved.