So, yesterday I noticed my Ws paycheck which posted Wed seemed rapidly depleted. Last week she took $1200 out of savings without mentioning.
Now I say this because it triggered suspicion, but first, you have to understand that the point is that these things are not a large cause for alarm, but just a bit unusual based on history.
So, I decided to confront W in the least accusative way possible. The $1200 she claimed she paid toward D18 school and this weeks pay she said had got eaten up by health insurance etc.. She responded in a nondefensive way and I tend to believe her. I also asked her if she had any accounts that I was unaware of and if she was stockpiling funds elsewhere. She said no and looked me directly in the eye and didn't seem to be hiding anything nor defensive.
Sure she could be becoming a better lier. I don't think so. She seemed transparent and willing to disclose.

What does this mean? IDK

Does she still plan on making an exit? Who knows?

Is she continuing to demonstrate respect and consideration on and ongoing basis? Absolutely!


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.