I'm sorry to hear about that. It sounds like an incredibly tough night and tough conversation.
I wouldn't stress about what you shared with your wife or any of that. It sure sounds like she came in with the plan to advance the D and nothing you said was going to change her mind. I certainly wouldn't try to press her any more right now. She is not in a place where she is open to hearing it. Maybe that changes in the future, maybe it doesn't, but for now it surely won't work.
Remember all the work you are doing, the GAL, the IC, the job stuff, the workouts, etc... it is all for YOU. At this point, you need to let her go and keep focusing on all of that stuff because it is going to help you. Hang in there. I know this much feel like a gut punch, but you are strong and getting stronger.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
