Thank you guys. I feel like I have let go of her emotionally but the split will be tearing up the family and that is whats hard now. She wants split custody of the kids and she hasnt done anything bad enough to fight her on that. So now I get to see my kids less due to this mess. That is the part that grieves me now. I imagine she will want to come back at some point but I am not sure how much I will want that after doing this to our family. I know I will feel differently in time but thats how I feel now.
I really appreciate the support in this dark time.
