Yup! AS is absolutely right. He told me but I didn't listen. What I got at the end of that convo was absolute devastation and I got crushed like a little bug.
Not a good feeling! It made me more resolute for sure, but if I had just trusted the process, at least for my own healing, I would've avoided all that unnecessary pain.
With your RO, you don't have the opportunity to do that - consider it a blessing. There is nothing but pain at the end of that conversation.
