"Why did you do this? Why couldn't you have just talked to me and said you weren't happy?"
I did multiple times, but you never listened!
"How do you live with yourself? you cheated on me 3 weeks after we got married!"
You were such a jerk I didn't care anymore. You were depressed and never there for me. And when we did interact you were angry and mean!
"How do you really try and blame ME for this? you know you planned this and executed it all behind my back, and ran when i found out."
This is all your fault. And the fact that you don't see that proves that I did the right thing!
"How could you do this to your son, you clearly must have seen how badly this has effected him"
Kids are resilient. This is actually healthier for him. It is better than us fighting in front of him all the time.
"Why did you even bother marrying me if you knew this was going to happen?"
I don't know.
"you said time after time back in the winter that "you didnt know" if you loved me anymore, if you wanted to be with me, if you wanted to come home. You did know. Why did you lie?"
I didn't lie. I really don't know.
"Did you EVER even love me?"
I don't know.
"How did i go from "The love of your life" to a tumor overnight? WTF Changed?"
I don't know.
When you try to rationalize with WWs you get a lot of I don't knows. I was able to ask my wife questions like that. And IDK was a very common answer.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
